"R" is for Romance

“R” is for Romance

I know for a fact that “R” is for romance.  Not like in a romance novel, but the real deal.

Romance with a capitol “R”.

Yes, I am a lucky man.  There’s no doubt about it, I am truly blessed.

Today, it could be said I am doubly blessed.  That’s literally true, as it’s official that I have a new submissive.  It’s been announced to the local community at a munch, and added to our status at Fetlife.…

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woohoo, we made the list!

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Eat Meat on a Friday?

Eat Meat on a Friday?

Sinful Sunday – Easter Edition

The traditional religious observance of Lent is described as lasting for forty days.

That is in commemoration of the forty days which (according to the Gospels of Matthew, Mark and Luke) Jesus spent fasting in the desert before the start of his public ministry.

It’s said in those Gospels, that while fasting in the desert, Jesus endured temptation by the Devil.


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"Q" is for Queer

“Q” is for Queer

All my BDSM heroes are queer.

That may sound like an odd statement for a (mostly) heterosexual man to make, but it’s the truth.

Although this may sound silly, when I first became aware of the “BDSM community”, there was no community.  At least not where I lived.  To the best of my knowledge Davenport, Iowa never had a gay leather bar.  And when you talk about “Old Guard Leather” that’s where the…

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She is My Temple - Pussy is My Altar

She is My Temple – Pussy is My Altar

temples and altars, goddesses and gods

We all have within us, the ability to become God and Goddess incarnate when we make love.

We become that to each other, and for each other, through ritual and meditative practice, at least that’s the theory.  The concept works for some people, but not for others.

pussy-pride-project---michael_ARTI find the symbolism to be meaningful, but enlightened authors like Janet Hardy find it too “new…

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We Won! 4th Place in Triptych Competition

We Won! 4th Place in Triptych Competition




Well it wasn’t like opening that old envelope that said “You may already be a winner!”

Nope, not at all like that.

If you follow Sinful Sunday, you may already know that the triptych created by my lovely and talented slave, the always beautiful Serafina, was selected as a winner in Molly’s Triptych Competition.

We got 4th place!

The competition was pretty steep.  There’s a lot of…

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"P" is for Public Apology

“P” is for Public Apology

There’s a personal matter I’ve been biting my tongue about.

The circumstances behind the incident, I felt, didn’t allow me to say anything.

I was biting my tongue out of respect for a friend’s relationship, as I didn’t feel calling her Master out for a consent violation would be healthy for their relationship.

Now that she’s been “uncollared”, I feel that the appropriate opportunity to say…

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"O" is for Outlaw No More

“O” is for Outlaw No More


noun \ˈau̇t-ˌlȯ\

: a person who has broken the law and who is hiding or running away to avoid punishment

I used to tell my friends that inside the BDSM community, “We are all sexual outlaws.”

I always felt we were at least twenty years behind gays in our own battle for acceptance.  That was back in the early 1990′s, something like twenty years ago.

Upon reflection, I realized that…

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A Ticklish Subject - Is “M” for Maschalagnia?

A Ticklish Subject – Is “M” for Maschalagnia?

Serafina and I just adore Jade and her blog, Kink and Poly.

So much so that we named her among our biggest inspirations in the post “I” is for Inspiration and Influences.

But I can’t say that I’m terribly enamored of her topic choice for this particular Kink of the Week.  Sorry Jade …

Armpits?  Really?

Instead of maschalagnia, why not merinthophilia[2. sexual fetish characterized by a…

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Energy Antennae

She is like an energy antennae.

I’ve never quite felt such a thing before.  The closest I’d ever recognized to it was around a famous author/publisher, who glows with a white light.

When I wrapped my arms around the girl that day, I felt her hunger.   It was inescapable.  A gnawing hunger that could not be satiated, or so it seemed.  Her energy glowed, but it was not white, it was muddied by the…

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"N" is for No Surprises

“N” is for No Surprises

The term “no surprises” is actually something I remember first reading about in a book called the The Ethical Slut.  

I’m not sure if that particular wording was exactly how the idea was presented by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton, but it was the idea of complete disclosure that the authors stressed.  I think the first time I heard it boiled down to the “no surprises” concept was in a presentation…

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e[lust] #57

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Welcome to Elust #57 -

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #58? Start with the rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to…

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TMI Styled Permanent Vacation

TMI Styled Permanent Vacation

Here’s the lede for this week’s TMI Tuesday …

In many areas around the world, vacation season is approaching. This week’s TMI Tuesday asks you to tell us about your vacation style. Thank you to Virtual Sin for the questions.

Everybody likes vacation, right?  I’d like to go on permanent vacation, but I’ve not figured out yet how to make money without working.

So, let’s dive right into the…

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"M" is for Masochist

“M” is for Masochist

There’s no list today.

I’ll make no accounting of words that are part of the worlds of fetish, or kink, starting with the letter “M”.

“M” is for masochist, pure and simple.  There was no other consideration.

Sure, “M” could stand for Master.  It could also stand for ménage à trois.  M/s is another possibility, at least in theory.  “M” could stand for Michael, or Michael Samadhi too.

But to my…

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"L" is for Limits

“L” is for Limits

Today’s post, brought to you by the letter “L”.

Now, I have to admit that “L” is one of the tougher letters for me in the challenge so far, at least from the standpoint of selection.

There aren’t a lot of philias that start with the letter L, which limits my options to a certain extent.

With that said, it should be noted that any letter that starts the word “Love” can’t be all bad!

The nominees…

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