Bound and Delivered

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Sinful Sunday

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BDSM is an enthralling dance between partners.

At times, it’s outright magical.

The submissive inside Serafina never fails to seduce my inner dominant …

The masochist inside Sinnjara never fails to seduce my inner sadist …

Both are beautiful ladies.  Different yet similar.

For a man who’s made embracing and understanding kink to be his life’s greatest quest, these two wonderful women are…

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What Do You Doubt?

What Do You Doubt?

doubt –  /dout/

verb (used with object)

  1. to be uncertain about; consider questionable or unlikely; hesitate to believe.
  2. to distrust.
  3. Archaic. to fear; be apprehensive about.

verb (used without object)

  1. to be uncertain about something; be undecided in opinion or belief.

noun

  1. a feeling of uncertainty about the truth, reality, or nature of something.
  2. distrust.
  3. a state of affairs such as to occasion…

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#$@&%*! Sciatica!?!

I’m disappointed. That’s the bad news.  The good news is, that my disappointment is internal.  I’m upset with myself.

#$@&%*! Sciatica!?!

I’m disappointed. That’s the bad news.  The good news is, that my disappointment is internal.  I’m upset with myself.

e[lust] #60

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Welcome to Elust #60 -

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the

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Happy Anniversary My Beloved

Happy Anniversary My Beloved

My beloved, my wife, my slave, my life …

Mere words cannot convey what you mean to me.

Happy Anniversary!

And many more!

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Happy Independence Day - Please Be Safe and Sane

Happy Independence Day – Please Be Safe and Sane

It’s the 4th of July, which equates to Independence Day here in the USA.  The 1st of July was Canada Day.  That’s a similar celebration without an armed revolution to motivate the festivities.

Of course, my thinking today is less about the holiday itself, and more about the tradition of telling folks to have a “safe and sane” 4th of July.  Yes, the BDSM community motto has been taken over by the…

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Blissful Torment in all her narcissistic glory  … 

Blissful Torment in all her narcissistic glory  … 

(Source: depraveddroplets)

Ubi Est Mea

It’s a Throwback Thursday twofer today!  Here’s a post, originally written on 6/8/2012 for SpiritualBDSM.com

It’s said that all power corrupts, and that absolute power corrupts absolutely.  So, with that in mind, how does a dominant avoid the corruption and personal decay that can accompany the wielding of power?

Well, as a beginning, it’s an absolute necessity to know thine enemy.  So,…

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IML2012 - picking up a Dungeon Bed

IML2012 – picking up a Dungeon Bed

For Throwback Thursday, a post about IML2012 …

It’s no secret that Serafina and I recently invested in a beautiful piece of BDSM furniture, the Dore Alley bed from DungeonBeds.  The bed’s been a dream of mine for quite a while, so when I discovered DungeonBeds.com offering a significant discount for the bed that would be displayed at IML2012 in Chicago, we found a way to make the purchase…

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How Does Real Life BDSM Differ From Fantasy?

How Does Real Life BDSM Differ From Fantasy?

  • How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

One theme I keep coming back to, is that in a wide variety of ways, BDSM is like most everything else in life.

I believe that the kink community is a microcosm of society.

Our hopes and dreams are not that different from anyone else’s.  We just tend…

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Scavenger Hunt - Gun Range

Scavenger Hunt – Gun Range

Life has changed a lot since the days of Daniel Boone, who I’m told was some sort of distant relative of mine.

All you need for happiness is a good gun, a good horse, and a good wife.
~  Daniel Boone

But, Boone’s quote still is pretty relevant, at least the parts about a happiness, a good gun, and a good wife.

This is my rifle; this is my gun.
This one’s for fighting, this one’s for fun.

Which…

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Day 14: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

Day 14: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?
I would like to refer you to this entrywhere I explain that we are a 24/7 relationship and for me life as M/s dynamic is not a fantasy, but a reality.  As a reality it changes how you live and act.  Little mistakes can lead to less intimacy, acting…

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